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Thursday, January 12, 2012
Sunday, January 8, 2012
About Setting Goals (And Meeting Them)
So I've been thinking a lot about goals and what keeps us from reaching them. I've never been big on setting New Year's Resolutions because (to be honest) I rarely keep them past the end of February. Okay, okay, past the end of January. Besides, most NYR are pretty unspecific: I want to lose weight. I want to write the breakout novel. I want to stop spending so much money at Starbucks. (Okay, that last was a bit of a stretch, but you get the idea.)
Goals, on the other hand, are much more concrete: I want to lose 20 pounds by losing one pound a week. I will finish my novel by writing 1000 words a day. I'll only go to Starbucksonce twice four times a week.
I've also been examining what keeps us from following through on our goals. For me, at least, it's usually one of two things: laziness or fear. I don't meet my weight loss goals because I get lazy, stop working out, quit asking for non-fat lattes, and start ordering sweet tea instead of water.
The writing goal is a little more complex. You see, I want to finish the sequel to Finding My Escape. I want to make my blog extra pretty, and write an article for it at least two or three times a week. What stops me here is fear. What if my writing isn't good enough? What if no one wants to read it? What if (gasp) someone actually tells me he/she doesn't like what I've written? What if I don't like what I've written? I could go on and on.
Well this year I've decided to face my fears (and stop being lazy). I set some concrete goals, and I plan to meet each and every one. And I'm going to write about the journey here. Eclectically of course.
Goals, on the other hand, are much more concrete: I want to lose 20 pounds by losing one pound a week. I will finish my novel by writing 1000 words a day. I'll only go to Starbucks
I've also been examining what keeps us from following through on our goals. For me, at least, it's usually one of two things: laziness or fear. I don't meet my weight loss goals because I get lazy, stop working out, quit asking for non-fat lattes, and start ordering sweet tea instead of water.
The writing goal is a little more complex. You see, I want to finish the sequel to Finding My Escape. I want to make my blog extra pretty, and write an article for it at least two or three times a week. What stops me here is fear. What if my writing isn't good enough? What if no one wants to read it? What if (gasp) someone actually tells me he/she doesn't like what I've written? What if I don't like what I've written? I could go on and on.
Well this year I've decided to face my fears (and stop being lazy). I set some concrete goals, and I plan to meet each and every one. And I'm going to write about the journey here. Eclectically of course.
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